You’re not just a pretty icing on the cake

tumblr_static_tumblr_static_30886aq85ticssc8sgwo4kskg_640Don’t make them your full course meal if you’re just an icing on their cake. You deserve more than that. You deserve the moon and the stars and all those things that guys promise to give the girl they love. You deserve a good night text, not a ‘where are you? Come here’ at 1 a.m. You deserve a good morning text, not a panic attack each night that he might be gone when you wake up. And you know that you deserve a handwritten love notes and not just a text.
You are not born to be perfect. Just be yourself. You are free to choose. And don’t let them define who you are. You are so much more than who they tell you are. You are your thoughts, your feelings, and your words. If someone thinks they know you, all of you, well they don’t. If there’s something fairy tales thought me at such a young age is that ‘it does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live’.

This life is not easy. One minute everything will be going perfectly. Then the next minute you will feel as if you are in the lowest place a human being can be. And that’s what life is. But you don’t have to go through it alone Sweetheart. Confide in someone whom you know will never stab you back with your secrets. Because this world is full of people who promise you the galaxies but pushes you to hell.  Never let your tears and sensitivity blind you. If someone hurt you, they showed who they are. You have to be strong and move on.

tumblr_meq39y26wi1rmklgho1_400Remember, not everyone will see you as you really are. And that doesn’t matter. As long as you see the beauty and uniqueness within you, you don’t need anyone’s approval. Keep your head up high. Be considerate, respectful and kind to everyone.  That’s a reflection of who you are. Not everyone you meet will give you the respect or love that you deserve. Respect them anyway. Love them anyway.

You deserve more than this. You deserve all of it, because girl, you are the baker of your own life and when you….you get the choice to sit it out or dance…. I hope you dance.


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